With a sense of nostalgia, I sold my little Fiat. I bought her (a.k.a. Pistachio) 2.5 years prior, just days after moving to northern Virginia. Fun to drive and cute as can be. I loved being able park in Washington DC in spaces that no one else could fit in. One time the space was so tight, a man standing on a nearby curb who saw me parallel park, clapped. 🙂 Pistachio and I also took to the highways, on road trips south to Florida and north to Rhode Island. And now just days from me leaving Virginia, we parted. Farewell, Pistachio … and thank you. Maybe I’ll see you on the road.
Here’s a quick story about when Carl and I went to the RV dealership and purchased our 2018 R-Pod 180. While learning about the weight of the unit, the towing info, etc., the sales guy asked, “What do you drive?” In unison, we answered: “a Fiat” “a Prius”. Maybe you had to be there, but it was a funny moment. Here we were, looking to buy an RV with two vehicles that obviously weren’t going to tow it.
Before we left (in the Prius) we purchased the RV Camper, awaiting our return to pick it up. We literally put the cart before the horse! Arguably not a rational logical move. We put into practice what, in my coaching with clients, I refer to as ‘Quantum Leaping a Dream’. By, quite literally, putting the cart before the horse, we took a big ol’ leap of faith – diving in to the deep end and teaming up to do something that neither one of us had done before. With our decision to put the cart before the horse, we ensured that we would figure out what we needed to figure out, and gallop our way back to hitch our cart. And that’s exactly what we did. We sold our Fiat/Prius. And the R-Pod got it’s horse.
*** What Quantum Leap have you, or are you, dreaming up in your own life? What dream is stirring within YOUR heart just waiting for YOU to leap? Want to chat about it with someone who “gets” it? I love connecting with people from my online community. Let’s connect for a complimentary session and explore the possibilities, shall we?
2 Days From Nomadic Living: See You Later
Any friend who helps you carry boxes and drop stuff off at Salvation Army, is the real deal. As if there was any doubt. I was blessed to meet Laura salsa dancing just a few weeks after moving to the DC area. That night, she yelled goodbye, waving vigorously at me from a balcony when she saw I was leaving. I knew then and there, we’d be friends. Not long after, we went for a 3-hour kayak conversation (much more talking than rowing) and it was a friendship made.
Just 2 days from nomadic living, after helping me move some stuff, I gave her the grand tour of our 20′ camper, we ate take-out at the R-Pod dinette table, and we took a “see you later” selfie (no goodbyes). So glad our paths have crossed. And I know they will again. True friendship transcends time and space.
1 Day From Nomadic Living: How Long Things Take
Our last night in the (almost empty) apartment, after a busy day of tasks too many to name, was all on the heels of a late night out dancing. We accomplished a lot on this day and sleep felt like a true reward. After months of planning and preparation, it was very exciting to be less than 24 hours away from the kick-off of our nomadic lifestyle. Knowing that, by this time tomorrow, we’d be fully moved out of the apartment and fully moved *in* to the R-pod, was definitely exhilarating.
Big life changes are rarely made overnight. They take time and require planning and preparation. Generally speaking, the bigger the change, the more planning and preparation needed! But, how long? How do YOU determine how long things will take? As a rule of thumb, I find that when it comes to getting big, daunting tasks and projects done …. things take exactly as long as you have for them. Knowing this – and even better – learning to trust this, is a bit like having a superpower. Once a deadline is set, get to it, all while trusting that the time you have is exactly the time you need. Often easier said than done, I know. One of my favorite personal mantras is “Time expands for me.” I tell myself this (on repeat, until I believe it) especially when I’m feeling like the time I have is shorter than the time I need. And, lo and behold, it all gets done.
On the eve of this great adventure, having certainly wondered and felt concerned about whether we’d pull it off and get everything done and ready to go in time — I felt confident, a knowing in my soul, that we got this.
What about YOU? Do you find that things take as long as you have for them? How do YOU ensure that tasks and projects get done, done well, and efficiently?
November 5th, 2017: The Nomadic Journey Begins
Farewell apartment 207 – and thank you. Onward and upward! We are officially excited.
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